Why do language enthusiasts aged 25-45 who enjoy learning word origins and historical connections struggle with the letter "d"?

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Have you ever loved tracing a word back through Old English, Latin, or Proto-Indo-European, only to stumble when a simple "d" behaves strangely? Why is the "d" in Wednesday mostly invisible when we speak it, while the "d" in handled is very much